I have just decided to enjoy the last 3months of my poly. Being with frens, doing projects, outings, attending BSC and also IGuides events. Also got to be more serious in my schoolwork too.
Been having a nice opening school week except for some stuff that totally spoilt my moods. Found out that some of my actions had make ppl uncomfortable and i am really sorry for it. The feelings sux cos that are also people that do things that make me uncomfortable.
Recently i just realised the power of changing or omitting one or two words in a sentence can make a damn big difference.
Example 1: Quite Straight Forward
"I dun like you." If u omit the dun, it will become "I like you." And yes this refer to totally opposite things.
Example 2: A bit more chim
"U all dun like this leh." Just take out the leh and change the dun to cannot and it will become "U all cannot like this." Big difference man, cannot is like an order while dun like this leh is much more of a casual sentence.
This is how stuff gets exaggerated as people share what they hear/see and in the process it gets worst.
And back to the people make me uncomfortable, i am thinking shld i adopt the 'avoid' attitude although i realise it doesn't help cos i siam them, they will just involve with stuff that they are not involve with and once again i kena again. DAMN SPOILT MOOD. And the worst thing, they dun understand and dun have a damn clue about the thing.
And yes, i have also come to tink about how arguments started. It normally start when one person did or say something that make the other party irritated and the other party just shoot and scold back immediately. The feelings sux, any NORMAL person will shoot back to defend himself. I think that this can be avoid if the irritated party can just say it nicely, or if it cannot, i tink the best way is just for the person who kena scold to just ignore it instead of making it worst.
"One hand cannot claps, it takes two hands to clap."
So i think i just have to adopt the Dun Care attitude combine with the Siam attitude.
So pls, i dun come u u dun come find me. i wan a peaceful and happy 3 mths left at TP.
Btw, i know the sentence structure and grammer abit cui. LOL.
GOGO HAI PAI TIAN XIN!
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